When Michigan passed the No Fault Insurance requirement some years ago I got the idea of trying to eliminate the word "fault" from my vocabulary and thinking. I found that there is no need to blame myself or others for mishaps or mistakes when it seems to work out better to focus on either solving a problem or preventing it from happening again. Of course that does not mean ducking responsibility if others are hurt or inconvenienced. Then I am truly sorry and tell them so and try to make amends.
Believe me the number of mishaps and mistakes are not diminishing as the years go by. One hopes that wisdom comes with age but for me three things are going fast; mobility, eyesight, and er, I forget the third.
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ReplyDeleteCA is no fault too. I like that too. Mistakes happen--so that is ok. Good thoughts and who are you??? Love R and H
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